Royally speaking: Advice from the Prince: ten ways to meet females
Royal tip number1
Don't take it too seriously
Have you ever really thought about the cruel facts about bars and clubs? For starters, most dudes in bars and clubs are looking to get laid and most women are looking to get attention. Women get "hit on" so often -- and by such lames -- that they're usually annoyed before you even get yourcould even say something. And the women that frequent bars and clubs typically aren't the most mature or emotionally healthy. Most mature women Don't take bars and clubs too seriously, and never take anything that happens there personally. When you relax and see these venues as a "practice arena" to work on your skills, not only will you avoid a lot of frustration, but women will pick up on your "laidback" vibe and want more of it.Number 9
Getting numbers vs. picking up chicks
Fellas you seriously need to ask yourself why am going out? Is it to pick up a chick and try to take her home that night or is it to get a lot of numbers and line up dates for the next week or two? Neither attitude is right or wrong. But take a moment and decide for yourself which is your goal. Which feels "right" for you? What's more your style? Get clear on what your goal is and you'll have a much better chance of hitting your "target."Number 8
Great friends to have
Did you know that what you do before you set foot in a bar or club is more important than what you do once you're inside? Carefully picking who you show up with is a great example. Imagine rolling into a club with five attractive, socially connected women or cruising in with a couple of guys who are great with women. Do you think this would have an effect on how the women in the club see you? You damn right!!! So make "friends" with attractive women -- as well as dudes who are successful with them -- and add them to your "crew." When you do, you'll find meeting women becomes natural and effortless.
Number 7
Network for social success
You can start having "happy hour" at your place place on Friday nights from 7p.m. to 9 p.m. and invite friends, "socially connected" people and any women that you met that week over for a "casual drink" before you hit the clubs. If you're willing to do the work and want to make a powerful entrance into a bar or club, do what it takes to surround yourself with cool, interesting people. When you take them on your nights out on the town, you won't believe how much more attention you'll get from the females. You will be the life of the party!!!...hands down!!
Number 6
Bust through her "outter wall"
Ever been talking to a woman at a bar but it felt like you weren't really talking to her? You could sense there was some barrier she was putting up -- an "invisible shield" -- and you couldn't get through it? The reason women at bars put up this "wall" is clear, if you consider things from the woman's perspective. Every night, she has 25 jackasses approaching her all in the same lame way. After a while, she grows tired of it and she figures out that the easiest way to get all these guys to simply leave her alone is to put up a "mask," or persona, that is rude or downright mean. But what's fascinating about these "personas" is that they're usually the exact opposite of what's really going on inside. So, if a woman has that intense, b*tchy persona, she's usually covering up a sensitive little girl on the inside.
To break through, hang in there for a few minutes, keep talking as if everything is normal and give the little girl inside her time to warm up to you. Outlast her persona, get to the real woman on the inside, and you'll be that much closer to hitting her attraction buttons.
To break through, hang in there for a few minutes, keep talking as if everything is normal and give the little girl inside her time to warm up to you. Outlast her persona, get to the real woman on the inside, and you'll be that much closer to hitting her attraction buttons.
Number 5
Avoid being an asshole
One of the best things you can do to improve your success in bars and clubs is to avoid making critical mistakes -- the ones that creep a woman out and give her "instant dicust towards you." Turning up near her over and over again is one of these errors. This is what Beyonce refered to as a bugaboo. So is staring at her repeatedly instead of walking up to her and starting a conversation. And of course, acting like you're not at all comfortable in the social situation is a definite no-no. Stop doing these things and start focusing on developing your "Mr Popularity vibe," and you'll begin to send a powerfully confident auora that women are magnetically drawn to.
Learn how to get her e-mail or digits… quickly
Most dude fail to realize that getting a females contact information in a bar and the club can be a complete no-brainer? All you need is a hand book of how to do it. For exaple Let's say you're talking to a woman and you can sense that you guys are vibing ." Ask her if she has a business card; if she doesn't, tell her to write her number down. Easy. Another one of my favorites is to simply ask, "Do you have e-mail?" Every woman has e-mail these days, and once she says "yes," she's that much more likely to write it down for you. Or you can suggest "trading information" and catching up with her later. It's hard for any woman to turn down such a "fair," non-threatening proposition. Getting numbers and e-mails in clubs isn't a big deal… if you have a plan of action.
Number 3
Lead her physically
Newsflash: Every woman wants a man who is a leader, not a follower.stop being a punk and Take control!!!. But most dudes meet a woman in a bar, they don't do a single thing to show the leader inside. And women hate this. Luckily, one of the most powerful solutions I've found is also one of the simplest: Work on physically leading each woman you meet. If you're hitting it off, lead her to a different part of the club or lead her to the dance floor. Suggest checking out a different club, then take her to grab a bite to eat. When you lead a woman to different physical locations, you subtly communicate to her that you're a man who is in control, yet in a way that doesn't trigger her resistance.The attraction level will be through the roof .
Number 2
Make your move… no matter what!
The honest to God truth is that most dudes in bars and clubs don't approach any women at all. They'll stare at a woman from afar, imagining something happening with her, but never actually man up and do something about it . Or they'll linger around her, hoping that they'll bump into her and she'll be forced to talk to them. Or, even worse, they think up a million reasons not to approach ("she probably has a boyfriend," "she wouldn't give me the time of day," and so on). While mistakes like these are understandable and common, there is a solution. Realize that thinking something is going to happen without you actually doing anything… well, this attitude simply doesn't lead to success. My mom always told me that a closed mouth dont get fed .Dont miss out on your opportunities in life.
Number 1
Discover The Mr. Popularity in you
… The secret that 99% of men don't know? is that in order to enjoy crazy success with women -- in bars, clubs and everywhere else -- the most important thing you can do is to improve what I call your "Inner Gplayer" Techniques and lines will only get you so far, but when you take on the right beliefs and attitudes , that's when you'll experience massive and consistent success. There are many of these beliefs to master, but one of my favorites is to stop caring so much about what people think about you. The worst thing a women an say is no. once you develop this care-free approach...you will get more a$$ than toilet seats.
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